I think that there comes a point when a person just becomes very tired of catering to what other people think and ceases caring about the opinions of anyone else. Well, almost anyone else. Lets say they become more selective about it. When Jack and I decided to become poly, I don’t think either of [...]
Last Saturday morning I helped to host a kink brunch that is becoming a regular event in my area. Sparked by plans to get together in order to swap some toys, my co-hostess and I began inviting additional friends and before we really knew it there were upwards of 20 people planning to join us, [...]
Last night, when the clock struck 12:00am V and I celebrated the end of February (and our month of raw eating) with glasses of gin and pineapple juice, a bag of chips, and a rotisserie chicken. Yes, I went and bought one of those pre-cooked chickens because I’d been dying for meat and that was [...]
Ethics are a funny thing. Everyone has their own set, much like fingerprints. Generally, Jack and I agree with each other when it comes to morals and ethics, which is nice, and certainly makes life easier. Recently, a question arose that has us at odds with each other, and in an effort to perhaps gain [...]
Due to circumstances beyond our control, Jack and I ended up having to postpone our dinner plans at Susur until later this week. It was unfortunate, but not nearly the end of the world since we are indeed still going for supper there, we just have to wait a few days longer to do so. It’s [...]
Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I’m a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]
Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you’d be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun The reason I am emailing you is [...]
Shasta, Recently, a friend of mine’s vibrator died. I’d like to get her a replacement, but I’m discriminating in my tastes. Only the best. The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope. I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but…is there ones in particular, should be [...]
Do you know what this blog needs? More anal toy reviews! Woohoo. To assist me on my quest to bring you the best in back door bedroom bling, Pleasure Me Now sent me the Kobe Tai Anal Adventure Kit. The idea behind this kit is to provide a variety of anal toys suitable for beginners, [...]
Hi, I came across your blog a few days ago [and I've already read through most of it], and it feels a bit strange, e-mailing someone I’ve only heard of through a blog, but I was wondering if you could try helping me out. From what I’ve read, this isn’t really your thing, but my [...]
I hadn’t really planned to post anything today, but I am having a bit of a dilemma and I had hoped my insightful and wise friends out in the Land O’ Blogs might have some thoughts to share. See, I’ve been chatting a bit to this new guy, in the hope of establishing some sort [...]
I’ve been having a lot of conversations lately about personal strength and being a woman. Before I get rolling on this let me say first that I do not really consider myself a feminist, nor have I ever claimed to be one. I’m not trying to say “Hooray for women, we are so great”. I’ve [...]
Edit: You may have noticed the title change on this post. When I have posts sitting in draft, I generally assign them an arbitrary title until I post them. I put this one up so late last night that I forgot to insert the new title I wanted to use, LOL. Just wanted to avoid [...]
I’m having a bit of a discussion in my head, and with Jack, and so I wanted to put it out here for a little talk amongst all us blogger peoples. Please understand that I am not upset with Jack, nor trying to attack him here. I am just looking for a little perspective on [...]
I mentioned in my last post that I did not intend to tell The SmartAss about my blog. This is an issue I’ve been rolling around in my head for weeks. Now that I live in a new city I have the option of keeping it secret. In Calgary it was hard because I started [...]
I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on my relationships with others. Specifically on friendships and the wide variety of friends I have, how they came to be, and what keeps us in a relationship with each other. My extremely close friendship with V has often been the subject of envy and curiosity from others. I’m [...]
It’s not by accident that I haven’t written a very personal or detailed post about The Polyamory Experiment™ in about 4 months. That’s a long time to go without the usual emotional angst and “Oh Woe Is Me” around here. To be honest, I haven’t felt like sharing that aspect of myself here. As always [...]
It’s been over two months since I last wrote about The Great G-Spot Hunt here at Shasta Headquarters. The reason for the delay is because I’ve been trying everything I have read or seen on the Internet or in books to obtain one of those elusive G-Spot orgasms. To no avail. I feel quite badly, [...]
Ok, I need some advice again. The second time in a week, I must be losing my skills with men, LOL. So Q and I had a good time (from my perspective) on the weekend. I want to see him again, but I didn’t want to seem too over-eager. I called him yesterday afternoon to [...]
He CALLED! Thank you everyone who responded to my plea for advice. All of you made excellent points. Had he not called me, I would have phoned him this morning. As it was we had a great conversation and he’s going to be joining me on Sunday night for a camping trip, along with V, [...]
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